SUPER! LA! TIVE!

I recently had a conversation with a friend. He was complaining that he was wasting all his time with computer games. Nevertheless it was clear to him – “Computer games are shit – absolute crap!”

I know my friend as an extraordinarily intelligent guy. The picture wasn’t right for me. I can’t really imagine how he spends all his time dealing with a completely stupid exercise. Now I don’t know from my own experience what it’s like to play computer games intensively and therefore deny myself an opinion. But it seems obvious to me that if an intelligent monkey is engaged in an activity, this exercise is meaningful.

My friend said that he would try again and again to quit playing computer games completely, but then he would find himself in front of the computer again, gambling. “Absolute waste of time!”, “Computer games are absolute shit!”

“Really?” I asked my friend, “Do you really think computer games are absolute shit?

To my astonishment he replied: “No, of course, computer games are totally awesome”.

Now I was seriously confused: “What now, total shit, or total awesome?

We discussed for 15 minutes and all the time I tried to find out exactly where he was on the scale between one extreme and the other. But his statements always jumped back and forth between one and the other.

Totally awesome. Totally shit.

“But you know what I mean!” he said reproachfully at some point.

“I can only guess. You can’t be on both counts and you’re certainly neither on one point nor the other. You are probably somewhere in between. Where exactly – I have no idea. And you, you probably don’t know either.”

At this point we ended the conversation, which had become somewhat unpleasant. A few days later I got some feedback from my friend. The conversation had made him think.

Since I got into the habit of paying attention to the use of extreme narration, I notice more and more often: We discuss with each other to find out if something is so or so. Whether the EU is one way or another, whether migration is one way or another. Whether globalisation is one way or the other. Whether the Internet is one way or the other. Totally awesome or absolute shit. And most of the times we discuss as if there is nothing between the extreme points.

That’s a great pastime and you can argue a great deal. Good approaches for solving problems can only be found in the rarest cases. Reality can usually be found between the extremes. The solutions for problems as well.

But, if it is fun.

SUPER! LA! TIV!

Vor kurzem hatte ich ein Gespräch mit einem Freund. Er beklagte sich, dass er seine ganze Zeit verdaddeln würde. Immerzu würde er Computerspiele spielen. Dabei sei doch eigentlich klar – “Computerspiele sind Scheiße – absoluter Mist!

Meinen Freund kenne ich als aussergewöhnlich intelligenten Kerl. Das Bild, war für mich nicht stimmig. Ich kann mir nicht recht vorstellen, wie er seine gesamte Zeit damit verbringt, sich mit einer völlig blödsinnigen Übung zu beschäftigen. Nun kenne ich nicht aus eigener Erfahrung, wie es ist, intensiv Computerspiele zu spielen und versage mir deshalb eine Meinung. Doch es scheint mir auf der Hand zu liegen, das, wenn sich ein intelligenter Affe mit einer Tätigkeit beschäftigt, dieser Übung Sinnhaftigkeit inne liegt.

Mein Freund sagte, er würde immer wieder versuchen, das Computerspielen ganz bleiben zu lassen, doch dann würde er sich doch wieder vor dem Computer finden, am Zocken. “Absolute Zeitverschwendung!”, “Computerspiele sind Scheiße!”

“Wirklich?” fragte ich meinen Freund, “Finderst du wirklich, dass Computerspiele absolute Scheiße sind?”

Zu meinem Erstaunen sagte er: “Nein, es ist doch total klar, dass Computerspiele total geil sind.”

Nun war ich ernsthaft verwirrt: “Was denn nun, totale Scheiße, oder total geil?”

Wir diskutierten 15 Minuten lang und ich versuchte die ganze Zeit herauszufinden, wo genau er auf der Skala zwischen den dem einen und dem anderen Extrem lag. Doch seine Aussagen sprangen immerzu zwischen dem einen und dem anderen hin und her.

Total geil. Total Scheiße.

“Aber Du weißt doch, was ich meine!” sagte er irgendwann vorwurfsvoll.

“Naja, ich kann raten. Du kannst ja nicht auf beiden Punken sein und du bist sicherlich weder auf dem einen, noch auf dem anderen Standpunkt. Du bist wohl irgendwo dazwischen. Wo genau auf der Skala – ich habe keine Ahnung. Und Du, Du weisst es vermutlich auch nicht.”

Wir beendeten an dieser Stelle das Gespräch, das etwas unangenehm geworden war. Einige Tage später bekam ich von meinem Freund noch einmal Feedback. Das Gespräch habe ihm zu denken gegeben.

Seit ich mir vor einiger Zeit angewöhnt habe, auf die Verwendung extremer Erzählung zu achten, fällt es mir immer öfter auf. Wir Affen diskutieren miteinander um herauszufinden ob irgendwas so oder so ist. Ob die EU so oder so ist, ob Migration so oder so ist. Ob Globalisierung so oder so ist. Ob das Internet so oder so ist. Total geil oder absolute Scheiße. Und wir diskutieren, als ob es nichts zwischen den Extrem-punkten gäbe.

Das ist ein toller Zeitvertreib und man kann sich trefflich streiten. Gute Ansätze für Lösungen von Problemen findet man so allerdings nur in den allerseltensten Fällen. Die Realität findet sich in der Regel zwischen den Extremen. Die Lösungen für Probleme ebenso.

Naja, wenn es Spass macht!

LATK#4 – Miss Understanding (VIDEO)

Why one group of people does not get what an other group of people says

LIFE ACCORDING TO KORSAKOW #4
Miss Understanding

This episode is in English.

We live in a divided time. There seem to be two groups of people that have very different perception of reality. Most likely you are yourself member of one of these groups. Most likely you never consciously decided to be in one or the other group, it just happened. And most of your friends happen to be in the same group.

Your family: not so much. Like most people, you have family members, that are in the other group, you know, whom I am talking about: it is that uncle/sister/nephew that you avoid talking about politics/religion/life, because he/she never gets it. And you never get, what he/she says.

This podcast explains why.

And as a bonus it will let you see how humankind will develop.

Enjoy!

Music by Jim Avignon / Neoangin and Ilja Pollach, Cologne.

 

This video was also published as a podcast. You can subscribe to my podcasts here:

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LATK#4 – Miss Understanding (ENG)

Why one group of people does not get what an other group of people says

LIFE ACCORDING TO KORSAKOW #4
Miss Understanding

This episode is in English.

We live in a divided time. There seem to be two groups of people that have very different perception of reality. Most likely you are yourself member of one of these groups. Most likely you never consciously decided to be in one or the other group, it just happened. And most of your friends happen to be in the same group.

Your family: not so much. Like most people, you have family members, that are in the other group, you know, whom I am talking about: it is that uncle/sister/nephew that you avoid talking about politics/religion/life, because he/she never gets it. And you never get, what he/she says.

This podcast explains why.

And as a bonus it will let you see how humankind will develop.

Enjoy!

There is also a video of this podcast available. It includes the slides from the original talk.

Music by Jim Avignon / Neoangin and Ilja Pollach, Cologne.

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